A classmate was complaining about the many difficulties of the Finnish language, but she had found another culprit: “It’s been like this since menopause, I can’t remember anything, I can’t think anymore, I’m useless. You’ll see.” There was born a new fear for me: I was suddenly a few years away from uselessness. This book was the cure.
This is your standard French sociology PhD turned into a book: first, take a wildly common phenomenon, so common it is thought mainly as a natural fact rather than a social phenomenon, then compare it to some obscure societies from around the world – you’ve just widened the range of possibilities. Then, draw up its history in your society – and the range grows ever larger. Now, interview contemporary subjects and observe in what way they feel compelled to conform to their own and society’s expectations around the phenomenon and how they negotiate with norms.
This is a solid recipe to uncover bottlenecks we feel but cannot get out of. Sociology is the study of liberty and freedom (What can or can’t I do among the group? What can't I do because I can’t even imagine it, and/or because my environment can't imagine it?). And sometimes, between the jokes and the idiots that make it an easy target for political animals, I forget it.

I need to read this! Wait, what? That last part- you're telling me there's no need to get an HRT when I hit menopause! Thats contrary to the leading consensus in US
The book has not been translated into English afaik. This is not written by an MD, so there is no medical advice, just an inventory of the ways other societies view and deal with menopause. We know there are cultural diseases (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Culture-bound_syndrome), menopause is one of them. It doesn't mean there is zero basis in biology; rather, it means that this society choses to (over)interpret some signs. Premenstrual syndrome is likely another one.
Yep, still crazy tho. Too bad the book isn't available in English.