Apr 30, 2025
(Title means both "daughter" and "girl")
This is an unfinished read. Well written, all in headings and wordplay poetry, showing off the inherent misogyny of the French language. There is a quick and hard-hitting rhythm to it. It tells the story of a girl born in the 1950s and growing up through humiliation, belittling, attacks and harassment, all due to her sex.
Do you have any children ? the man asks.
No, my father says. I have two daughters.
We go through the usual installments: the disappointed father, everyday misogyny, the rapist uncle, the hush-hush aunts, the lack of sorority, the lowered expectations and the inner buried anger.
Halfway through the book, it seems to be all: the story of someone born to be abused by all and everything, although some parts evoke something other than permanent oppression (she likes to read! Probably she will become a writer, and that will save her, and that's why we are reading her laments in what is probably some sort of autofiction).
It's a good thing to know what you don't want to write, and for me, that's it. I don't know why the author wrote it (maybe the usual: tell her story, tell the horror so that never again, etc. - Nothing new under the sun, although, not much resolved to this day), but I do understand why one would read it: this is a cadenced song of outrage, and every scene calls for vocal indignation and commiseration. This is a literary device delivering (every page or so) a healthy dose of righteous anger, which seems to be the drug of choice these days. It is intoxicating, but I don't want it anymore.
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